Ashley Carver

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One Pivot That Has the Power to Change Everything

How do we create the new earth?

Revolution starts from within, right?

We are all invited to replace the old paradigm ways of relating to ourselves and our inner parts and pieces, with new ways of relating to ourselves.

Everything is conscious, including our sensations, sub-personalities, old programs, and unfelt emotions…

There’s purpose in everything.

We’ve been taught by example from our lineage that judging, controlling, rejecting, self-hating, criticizing, denying, and repressing “inauthentic” or “damaged” parts of ourselves is how to move through life.

All of these ways of relating to self are old paradigm frequencies that our generation is tasked with alchemizing so we can create space for the new frequencies that are aligned with the new earth.

When we use these old frequencies on parts of ourselves, criticizing that voice in our head that is judgmental, for example, we fragment and become disempowered..

Then, these parts go down deep into the subconscious and the unfelt parts of our nervous system where they can control us, our actions, our reactions, etc.. They become the ones in charge of our decisions and the life we are creating for ourselves.

We basically “other” ourselves, which creates a stronger “other” than would have existed if we had dropped into acceptance of that part of ourselves instead.

Being at war with ourselves is painful. And it also allows the control we have over our destiny to slip through our fingers.

Part of the healing journey is to restore the power of choice, in every area of our life.

We are crafting a new way of relating to self, from scratch.

This new relationship will be clear, accepting, loving, nurturing, respectful.

We honor all parts of ourselves and in some cases we also end up putting boundaries up or removing, transforming, or alchemizing parts of ourselves.

We aren’t doing this from the place of “I need to get rid of this part of me,” though, we are innerstanding from a new level how to have the deepest compassion for these parts of ourselves, what they need, and how to relate to them in the most intelligent and aligned way that facilitates thriving.

To restore choice, we:

  • feel the unfelt things

  • allow these parts to come to the surface

  • feel them with all 5 senses and within our body as well

  • + change our fundamental relationship to these parts.

The more we integrate and accept all as one, the less unfelt things we have controlling our destiny.

What we want, we are more able to optimize for.

Plus it just feels good to love all parts of ourselves.

Tantra philosophy says that positive change exclusively happens through the  frequency of love.

Self-critique, guilt, & shame don’t do the trick.😉

We also release more of our latent energy and power as we move through this process toward healing ourselves by loving each part, because repressing or rejecting parts of ourselves takes enormous amounts of energy.

If there are unfelt oceans of sadness or rage within that we are not acknowledging or tapping into, that takes a LOT of energy to mask, repress, or ignore.

Imagine trying to not see, hear, or feel a raging animal in a cage in the same room as you right now.

With acknowledging, healing, and accepting all parts of ourselves, energy we used to use to repress can now be used towards our radiance and activation.

Which leads to a deeper richness in all areas of life.

Think of a world that is based off humans who prioritize clarity, acceptance, compassion, integration, love, and harmonious relationships with ALL.

Instead of one based on old paradigm frequencies.

What we create within ourselves creates our external reality.

Let’s go, fam.

Feeling called to explore this topic more deeply?

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